Imagine always feeling like you have to steer every conversation, ensuring it stays interesting, engaging, and never falls flat. That was me for as long as I can remember; I used to talk A LOT. On top of that, I always felt the need to be overly goofy and dumb myself down—not because I wanted to, but because I felt like it was necessary to be more likable, earn laughs, and to prevent people from feeling intimidated by me. I felt trapped by this compulsive behavior.
But then it hit me. How could I expect to be taken seriously if I was always acting like the class clown? How could I project a presence that demands respect if I was so quick to air my personal stuff just to spark a conversation and have something to talk about? And lastly, how could I be poised if I was too busy being the captain of every conversation?
So I decided to do something about it. For 4 years, I studied my triggers and insecurities to figure out why I felt the need to overshare so much. I observed those who didn't feel the urge to entertain others by talking excessively or acting goofy. They had this classy vibe that I craved. Over the years, I discovered the beauty of selective sharing, of being poised and elusive, and I decided to implement my newfound techniques to control my impulses.
And guess what? It worked. I overcame the habit of nervous talking, stopped talking excessively to please others, quit feeling the need to always be the life of the party or overly goofy, and I became more poised without compromising on my authenticity. The techniques literally changed my life.
And now, I'm excited to introduce to you the "Speech is Silver, Silence is Gold" program. In just 10 weeks, you'll uncover the secrets I've spent years discovering. Say goodbye to the frustration of constantly navigating conversations, oversharing compulsively, and being overly goofy just to please others—and say hello to a more balanced, confident, and elegant version of yourself. Are you ready to take the leap?